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By Ozzie_ What is "Wrong" with You? Why Things Go Wrong the Closer You get To Success?

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    Hey Guys,

    In this article you will learn

    <span style="font-weight:bold">How afraid you are of making it big
    How you resist the sweet nectar of victory and why
    How to overcome self sabotage in your &nbsp;life&nbsp;</span>

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    You become very predictable when you are in fear. It doesn't<span style="font-weight:bold">
    </span>matter what kind of fear, success or failure. Your neuro pathways will be
    triggered in the same way and you will recoil. That's why there is no
    difference between fear of failure and fear of success, two sides of the same
    coin. You will avoid situations where you could be successful as well as a
    failure. One thing you notice is that excitement has the same neuro pathways
    than fear. You can't have excitement without fear. But the fact that the same
    neuro pathways are triggered becomes a problem. The closer you get to success
    the more you fear it. If you have played video games you might have already
    experienced this. The closer you got to the end of the game, the more excited
    you became but also fearful. You don't know what will happen if/when you succeed.
    Then it is fear all over again taking over. If you avoid excitement because it
    reminds you of fear, you avoid success in the process.
    <span style="font-weight:bold">&nbsp;Fear of Getting a Whole New Identity</span>
    If you win, you might become a winner. If you put winners in
    society on a pedestal, you are also feeding your fears of becoming one. If you
    are on a pedestal, you might be too visible. People might decide to take pot
    shots at your head. In other words you fear becoming a target. You worry with
    this new identity you might turn into something you don't like, or your family
    won't like. Part of the change is to leave your old self behind. For becoming
    new the old you must die. What if you don't like what you become?
    To curve this, try to leave scarcity mentality behind. You
    can always go back and slip into your old shoes of being a loser. That
    possibility will still be there when you take on the new "winner"
    identity. Get excited about discovering this new emerging you about to be born.
    In other words, you need to step into your power, no matter how scary and take
    charge. Be careful, you might like it. You see students stepping into their
    power on program. Once they get rid of their fears, they become bold,
    aggressive and nonchalant about success. They find out they are not losing anything
    but adding.
    <span style="font-weight:bold">Failing is Easy</span>
    You might want to stay with the familiar, failure. You know
    it inside out. It doesn't bother you anymore. You learned to live with it. But
    you are afraid you won't be able to handle success. You are entering uncharted
    land. You are afraid of the stress, pressure and demands success can bring. It
    is ok to fail small, but not big. Big fat success attracts too much attention
    and scrutiny, so does big fat failures. The closer you get to success, the more
    your mind will try to screw up your performance so you don't have to deal with
    the unknown. How many times you have heard a guy saying, "I was about to
    pull a girl when....."failure"? It reminds of those ball players who
    fall down when they are about to score. Subconscious is too powerful.
    You don't think you are up to the challenge.
    To navigate those fears, you might want to think that it
    took a lot of energy to live with failure, and that energy can be used
    alternatively to live in success. In other words, if you can handle failure,
    you can handle success. You will have to make a few adjustments but you will
    live. Also keep in mind, success comes with big fat bonuses of increased
    confidence, &nbsp;quality relationships and
    enjoyment of life.
    <span style="font-weight:bold">Be Like Cristiano Ronaldo!</span>
    My favourite soccer player by far today. He embodies&nbsp; a winning mentality. He is famous for
    performing better while taunted by the crowd. The worst thing that can happen
    to him is to be ignored. He plays better when he has the spotlight and the
    pressure. That's how winners are made. Nothing motivates him more than
    thousands of people chanting against him. He revels in it.
    Can you enjoy the pressure of success? Can you deal with the
    attention and the challenges? What's wrong with you? Do you put off things that
    you know will lead to success? on purpose? What don't you want to find out? Are
    afraid to stop being average?
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    October 11-13, 2013: London, United Kingdom&nbsp;
    October 18-20, 2013: Frankfurt, Germany&nbsp;
    October 25-27, 2013: London, United Kingdom
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    November 1-3, 2013: Zurich, Switzerland&nbsp;
    November 8-10, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands&nbsp;
    November 15-17, 2013: London, United Kingdom&nbsp;
    November 22-24, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden&nbsp;
    November 29-December 1, 2013: London, United&nbsp;Kingdom&nbsp;
    December 6-8, 2013: Copenhagen, Denmark</span>
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